DON’T SAY IT, IF YOU DON’T MEAN IT!

Have you ever had a friend that said that they were going to take you to the store, to the mechanic, or even pay you back and you both know that they didn’t have the intent on doing that in the first place smh.  Honestly it goes on too much and it needs to start.  First, if you don’t have the intent on doing something for somebody elese just say NO.  It doesn’t make any sense to agree with doing something when deep down inside you know that you know that you are not going to do it all. All you are doing is losing your credibility with your friends and you can end up losing them.  If somebody asks you “hey, lets go to the club later. Let’s meet at 11 and roll out, you down?” and you say “yeh i’m down, let’s do it” and your homeboy or homegirl call you at 10: 30 and tell you that they are on their way to link up.  But you are in your pajamas, chilling watching tv and you break them the news that you are not going.  You might have an upset friend on your hands, even though they might not say anything they are upset with you.  So in the future just say NO because in the end you lose your credibility, look like a liar, and can possibly lose friends if you lie on a regular basis.

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